----------------------------------------------------------------------------- ' el Destino ' -------------------- Destiny = el deseo es el destino. Si no hay un deseo lindo, no hay un destino (punto). Your desires are your destiny. Setting goals for yourself will allow you to get closer to your destiny. Sometimes after working hard, one finds that they are not any closer to reaching their goals ~ desires in life, destiny. This happens because maybe you haven't quite understood all that is necessary to achieve your goals. Sometimes things seem easy to do when in reality they are not. To fully understand what you are after, one needs to completely get lost in it and embrace it - live, eat, sleep and breath 'it'. Then and not only then can you create and make possible a reality that was once impossible for you to achieve. When you can foresee yourself reaching your goals and desires then and only then can you understand what you need to do to achieve them. It's ok to ask people for help along the way. That is not cheating yourself of your destino unless you give up on trying to work for it and try to have someone else do it for you. That won't work, cause your destino is something very personal to you and only you can be the one who unlocks the key to Your Destino - ! If your goals are bigger than life itself, it might require more time and energy than you thought needed. If so, doing some Meditating can help clear your mind of what you've already accomplished and what you still need to accomplish and of course help you think of ways to accomplish your goals. Every once in a while, take a few minutes to reflect upon everything in you have in you life, including your goals & accomplishments. Be grateful for what you have and embrace your accomplishments by feeling happy with yourself for all that you have worked for. Doing so, will help you relax and be patient. To help energize yourself you might need to apply your entire body, mind & soul (cuerpo, mente y alma) to the cause to get to where you want to be. Every so often, make sure to take time out to reassess your situation cause things have a way of changing without you realizing it and you can find yourself going after something you were not seeking. Stay focused and grounded. Don't set your goals to high. Start with little ones and work your way up to bigger ones. After you've accomplished some goals ask yourself if you truly are happy with the way you tackled them. There is always time to perfect your strategy and to learn from them - don't confuse learning new things and becoming a better person doing so with failure to being 'perfect'. Is the fear of failure keeping you from achieving your desires in life? Don't wait until you've reached your goal to be proud of yourself cause then you'll never get there. As you reach goals (accomplishments), be happy with yourself and the person that you are becoming. If you find yourself going down the wrong path, stop yourself and take a good look at yourself & your life and see what you need to do to be where you want to be and get back on track as quickly as you can. Be careful not to overestimate yourself. Sometimes one thinks that they know something 'real' well when in reality they only knowing in a familiar context. When the information is taken outside of the context that one is familiar with one sometimes finds that they are at a loss in understanding the information that they thought they knew so well ~ the most important thing about accomplishing your goals and reaching your desires and living your destiny is being able to get a glimps of yourself in the process of doing so. If you are doing it right, you will catch yourself finding new things about you that you 'Like' and never knew existed ~ ! this feeling will leave you 'happy' with yourself and people will notice that change in you and you will be a more likeable person - striving for your goals, embracing your desires and living your true destiny. People will say, that this person has something - ! that's half the battle, building people's confidence that you are capable of doing great things with your life - ! it's your life, only you can decide what you are capable of and what your limitations are ~ so go out there and find yourself and make sure that you are happy with the person you find. If not, everyone now and then has to look themselves in the mirror and say to themselves, "this is what I can live with' and 'this is what I need to change to be happy with myself'. Then make sure it's something you can actually attain - don't try to be someone you are not, because that's usually not the person that everyone likes. Be 'happy' with who you see in the mirror. Getting to know that person better will help you in your everyday life! Don't stop being you for that person that you think that you want to be until you find out first more about whom you are ~ it's a long learning process learning who you are and want to be - what your desires and destiny are - but there's no rush, time can be on your side if you work at it - ! the 'Best' thing is to find out, what is it when you walk into a room that people look at that makes them say, wow ~ that person has something about themselves that's interesting, exciting & unique ~ "ALGO TIENES" ------------- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbkT4SlvOrY - this is the story of Ashley's journey in creating and reaching her 'destino'. The life that she desires and passions for is about being able to be proud of herself for being a strong individual in her own right. one that did not fall into temptation and give herself away to fulfilling her desires through another person's desires & dreams ~ On her journey she learns how to work with others side - by - side to not only achieve her goals but also theirs. Working 2gether~ http://www.bonitavida.com/WorkingTogether.htm It's a story of trails & tribulations one were there is a lot of learning to be done and a lot of living and celebrating life - ! Celebrating life ~ http://www.bonitavida.com/AnniversaryGala.htm - < * > - Ashley is Texas bound - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cqd-LxhIYKM whether her desires stay just in her Dreams or she gets just a piece of her reality doesn't matter. Cause Ashley has decided that she is gonna cling onto this 'Dream' as long as she can cause it has made the journey that much more enjoyable. Her 'American Dream' in Texas is about having a get away place, a ranch she can call Home that has horses & an organic farm situated outside of Houston and a penthouse in the heart of it all in Dallas. As you've guessed, Ashley loves enjoying Life ~ ----------------------------------------------- http://www.bonitavida.com/EnjoyingLife.htm She likes the outdoors and being at harmony and a part of nature. Along with hanging out with other people whom have an 'American Dream' that they like to talk about and share with others ~ One day Ashley found herself reflecting back onto her past. How she had worked so hard all her life up to this point for this special moment where everything comes together. It seemed to her that she had finally reached this point in her life and that now was the time for when all of this was going to happen for her. Ashley found her thinking back to her High School and College days and everything that came after it because of it and how hard that she had worked for this moment to finally happen. Ashley had been raised in the South, but had gone to school in New England. She went to school to learn how to be a part of 'Made in USA' and help the cause. To her, 'Made in USA' has roots in cultures from around the World. so Ashley, took courses in history, economics, politics, literature, financing, World religion and even art, music, drama & cooking that taught her more about the influences from the exterior world into the interior one. They comprised of influences from Native America, to European, African, Middle Eastern, Asian, Latino etc. She picked her courses wisely so that she could get a better feel & understanding and become more knowledgeable about how the first settlers that came to America felt about making this grandiose place Home and how the natives felt about their precious place 'America the Beautiful'. The courses gave her an inside look into this frontier world and a hands on feel about what made those people want to struggle so hard to create and make America a place that they could call 'HOME' and be proud to do so. Paulina Rubio - Algo Tienes [Con Intro] - Premios -------------------------------------------------- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXdBzV9tYiM While in college Ashley gravitated to others who felt the same way that she did about discovering and learning more about the 'Roots' of America. She especially wanted to finding ways where there were loop holes that she could be of service to the cause. One friend of hers in particular was from Texas. His name is, Sebastian. Growing up, Her and Sebastian had mutual friends who's family had ties in helping develop "Made in America" products. So they all kind of knew of each other but never really hung out together. Starting in High School when they were all starting to decide what they were going to do with their lives they started to socialize a bit with one another and ask each other what they were going to do with their lives. While in college, but not at college, Ashley started to hang out with Sebastian. Her and him shared the same love for the great outdoors and for going horseback riding. Sebastian's family had been one of these people who's family worked with other people to create and maintain to the standards of American products so that they could be sold to make a profit. This job function was important to the national economy because the money was always re-invested in the USA to help make a bigger, stronger country. MTV Summer - (Malaga) -------------------------------------- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQMGfDItJlM During her Summers, Ashley would meet Sebastian at his families barn in South Carolina. The rest of the year, Sebastian's parent's rented out the barn with the horses so that they could make some extra money to use toward to helping keep the family ranch that was in Houston. This ranch had special meaning because it had been in the family for generations and pasted on from one to another. On the ranch their were horses, cows and a farm. Ashley had not been to the place in Houston, because it was more for business than for hanging out at. His parents lived in Dallas. Where his father had an investment company that he tended with his wife. With the money they made, they would use to re-invest in the family ranch in Houston. Sebastian only talked briefly about his parents to Ashley. He thought all she needed to know about them was that they came from Europe with the illusion of coming to America for a better world. His parents had actually been exposed to both world's, Europe & the USA. As you can guess, his Grandparents were from the heart of Europe. Ashley & Sebastian every Summer while in college enjoyed meeting in S.C. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- http://www.brooksbrothers.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-brooksbrothers-Site/default/OnlineCatalog-Show?cid=BrooksBrothers-TransitionIntoFall-2014&cwidth=960&cheight=775 Throughout the year, while in college, Sebastian & Ashley briefly kept in contact. so there time at the barn in South Carolina was very precious to them. There the two of them would meet to chat about what they had learned all year long at school. Then they would go horseback riding to relax, enjoy and appreciate the natural surroundings. After the ride they would take more about what they wanted from life and set goals for each other. As they parted they promised one another that they would help each stay focused so that they could work hard on their goals. Paulina Rubio - Baila Casanova (Malaga Summer) ------------------------------------------------ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0I6asVfiOc One Summer, Sebastian had told his parents that he had met a girl that he really liked and that he wanted to ask her to marry him. He didn't tell his parents much about Ashley because he liked keeping his private life to himself. Anyways, the Sebastian's proposal did not go exactly as he planned. Ashley did not take him very seriously. She thought that his proposal was his way of making a commitment to their mutual cause and goals that they shared. For example, their love for nature and the outdoors etc. Ashley promised to be loyal & faithful to their cause but that in order for them to grow closer together and keep their 'American Dream' alive that after college graduation they would have to part their separate ways so that they could go to work at what they did BEST. Ashley would go back to New England and work in Corporate American and Sebastian would help his family business in Texas. Boston Proper Faux suede fringe skirt ------------------------------------------------------ http://www.bostonproper.com/store/browse/product.jsp?maxRec=124&pageId=1&productId=570121731&viewAll=&prd=Faux+suede+fringe+skirt&subCatId=&color=&fromSearch=&inSeam=&posId=16&catId=cat8289430&cat=New+Arrivals&onSale=&colorFamily=&maxPg=8&size= ------------------------------------------------------- NO DOUBT ABOUT It - we go Hand - in Hand ~ Just like a DREAM: ---------------------------------------------------------------- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dV6hwZL5-Wc After both Sebastian & Ashley spent some time working in Corporate American they gained enough information & knowledge to do something of their own. After much thought the two of them came up with an idea. They decided to create something that was Made in America and that was healthy & 'Good' for you. The idea that the two of them came up with was to open a healthy & organic fast food restaurant chain that would also have a boutique shop inside of it. The shop would sell natural products such as soaps, creams, oils, aromas and organic stuff like herbs, condiments, teas etc. The foods & products that were organic & natural were used as Holistic Medicine to help cure whatever ailments one would have. From high blood pressure, low blood sugar, to stress and many others. The fast food restaurant would be called, "The Garden of Eden" and the boutique would be called, "The Tree of Life". What was special about their idea was that all the food from the restaurant would come from farms within the United States. The foods were made from recipes that were inspired from all over the world. The recipes were chosen on the bases of their health factors and then changed to make them organic, and more healthy. Save America's Farms ---------------------- http://bonitavidainc.tumblr.com/post/100718284992/eight-crowns-living-wisconsin-by-phil-koch Vote for Organic & Naturally Healthy -------------------------------------- http://bonitavidainc.tumblr.com/post/100716369467/anna-tokarska-for-madeleine Don't Miss out in being a part of the 'American Dream' and being a part of 'Made in America' ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- http://bonitavidainc.tumblr.com/post/100719716657/martha-stewart-dont-miss-our-two-day-event -------------------------------------------------------------------------- stay tuned for more about Ashley's destino ~ --------------------------------------------------------------------------
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